Monthly Archive: February 2009

Spiritual re-awakening – then breakfast!

Most Sundays of late, you will find us at the 9:30 mass over at Holy Spirit.  We started going again in earnest  last summer, and for the most part, haven’t missed many Sundays.  Team Vandy goes to the 9:30, so we sit with them.  Downing are there too,  and even a family of Camellos a few rows back!   It feels good to go to church, and to be surrounded by our friends.  With all the pressures of the world today, and just everyday life,  when I walk into that church, kneel down and bow my head,  I can feel the weight of the world (my world anyway)  being lifted from my shoulders.  Its good.   I can sit and reflect.  And pray.  And I do.   Where I used to daydream or peoplewatch during mass, these days  I try to listen, to pray, and to  agree and/or disagree with the homily,  and am even able to gleen words of encouragement  and  sometimes understand how what is being said works in my everyday life. It took 50 years but I’m finally beginning to understand what it all means.  As an example, during mass there is a point when the priest says “Lift up your hearts”, and the people will say ” we lift them up to the Lord”.  I’m sure most people go through the motions and just say these words without giving them much thought. But when the priest says “lift up your hearts”  he is asking you to let your heart be light!   Be happy!  Get to a place in your life where you are truly happy,  because if you are in a happy place, only then can your heart be lifted up to the Lord.  I’m trying to let my heart be light. Trying to lift up my heart.   I think its working.  And I think church is helping.   I walk out feeling good, refreshed,  alive.   HUNGRY!!

Most Sundays of late, after mass, you will find us at the Cabrillo Park Cafe for breakfast.  There is just something about Sunday breakfast out that is so satisfying!   I think we really hit our stride  when the kids  were going to St Leonards school and we were going to mass there every Sunday.  We passed to many resturants on the drive home that eventually we had to stop.   Our good time breakfast train made stops at  all the local breakfast eateries.  Country Way was our favorite,  followed by Classic (formerly Chubby’s) Diner,  then Norman’s.  There was a stretch there when we were going to  breakfast with Kahuna and family almost every Sunday!  Including  an Easter Sunday breakfast (at Classic Diner)  on our way to a 10 day Hawaiian vacation!    These days,  its Cabrillo Park all the way.  Not only is it our neighborhood restaurant, its better than the rest! Better breakfast, better food, better service, better coffee, and even flavored creamers! Barb just loves those flavored creamers : ) Sometimes its just a table for two,  but mostly its for four, six, eight or more!  Some of our kids, some Vandenbusch kids (or grandkid), Downings, whoever! Its all good.  So what is about a simple breakfast, made by others, that tastes so darn good?  Eggs, meat,  taters and toast!  Throw in a short stack on the side and a glass of OJ  and….. HEY NOW!!  Thats good eating!  The one two punch of church and breakfast is good. Very good.

After nourishing my soul AND my body, I’m good for the rest of the day. And week.

LIFT UP YOUR HEARTS! 

Rainy days and Fridays…..

Last year at this time we were all about Kelly and her team’s amazing  run to the Division III water polo championship. This year its all about Kate and her run to Marine Corp boot camp graduation.   In an effort to keep recruit Kate motiviated, and not too homesick, we’ve been sending pictures of “life at home,” which mostly consists of “life with the dogs”.  So, in other words, we send a lot of animal pics to cheer her up.  Just today, in the light rain, Mali was sitting out on the deck, so I took a picture. Bruno, the camera hog sat up tall and to show that he wanted to get his picture taken. Then, when I try to get a shot of Niya, who loves to sleep under my desk, Bruno horns in on that picture too!!! Anyway, I sent these three shots to Kate today. 30 days til graduation!

Kirby Cove Marines

Before,  they were just commercials.  Now, I get a lump in my throat when I see one of these.

On a side note,  in the final shot of this commercial, the Marines are standing on the beach at Kirby Cove!  One of our favorite new places.

Kate\’s food list

One thing that is apparent from Kate’s letters home is that her and her fellow recruits spend a lot of time talking about food.  About all the food that they can’t have and really really REALLY want. This is the second (or third) food list that Kate has sent home with her letters.  It obvious that her and her girls are sitting around rattling off favorite candy bars, ice cream flavors, cookies, fast food, you name it, they cover it. Kate was even joking that they could write a boot camp recipe book with all the crazy stuff they dream up.  So here is just a taste of what Kate is looking forward to when she gets her 10-day leave.  We will see how far she gets!!  You can click on these lists for a better view. Bon Appetit!

Kate\’s Crucible

One  definition of crucible is :  a severe, searching test or trial.

Kate begins her Crucible at 1am tomorrow morning. 

The Crucible is 54-hours long.  It is a physically and mentally challenging event that involves food and sleep deprivation and the completion of various obstacles to negotiate, all within a simulated combat environment. Recruits will travel 48 miles on foot during the event.  There are 36 stations and 29 problem solving exercises that tests the recruits both individually and as a team. Kate will only have 3 MREs (meals, ready to eat) and minimal sleep ( 8 hours) over the course of the event.  ( I hope they know what they are in for!  When Kate is hungry AND tired, WATCH OUT! )  In addition, each recruit will carry 45 pounds of equipment in addition to regular gear and rifle. 

So Kate will be getting some abbreviated sleep tonight and then starts busting butt until Saturday Morning.   The hardest thing she has ever done, will be done in the next three days.  As a parent, the last 11 weeks have been difficult, and exciting. The next three days will be very….difficult and exciting!!!  I was looking for something inspirational to send Kate. There are some “crucible prayers” out there in Googleland, but nothing good enough for my baby. So I went ahead and penned my own Crucible Prayer:

 Almighty God, you have walked with my recruit all these days.  You have been with her during those first uncertain days, and gave her some sense of peace and understanding amongst the chaos. You stood with her on those yellow footprints, and have  been with her for every pushup,  jumping jack, and more. You sat by her and encouraged her  at the rifle range. You were there during the challenge of  combat conditioning and confidence course, and gave her the strength and confidence to succeed. You walked by her side every step.  Along the way,  she has grown, in many ways. In every way. Thank you for being with her when we could not,  for our bond is ultimately through you.

 You have brought us all to this point, where we ask again for your unconditional love and support, as our recruit embarks on her Crucible.  Her challenge is our challenge, and we pray that you continue to walk by her side. To be her support. To lift her up. Give her the confidence to encourage others,  for no recruit can accomplish this task alone.   Our hope is your will.

Crunch Time for Kate

Kate needs you now more than ever!  Two weeks until graduation!  Please just keep her in your thoughts and prayers.  Send good vibes!   Especially while she is on her Crucible, February 26-28.

Its crunch time !!!   She is ending her 10th week of training! Can you believe that she has been gone almost 70 days already? She is in the best shape of her life and ready for the final two weeks. The last two weeks contain many “pass or fail” events.

Here is some great info on what Kate will be doing these last two weeks…. this partly from the Marine Corp website.

The Marine Corp Recruit Training Matrix represents the best training in the world. It is a methodical and time-tested process. Every hour of every day for 13 weeks culminating with the 54-hour Crucible is designed for just one purpose. To make the highest quality basically trained U.S. Marine.  Without doubt, Marine boot camp is more challenging — both physically and mentally — than the basic training programs of any of the other military services. Not only are these requirements much higher, but recruits are required to learn and adhere to the core values of Honor, Courage, and Commitment.

It has been said time and time again by former Marines that Marine Corps recruit training was the most difficult thing they ever had to do in their entire lives. In order to train the world’s most elite fighting force… It has to be that way.

Tomorrow is Practical Application testing.

Final Practical Application Test – The final practical application test is a series of test events where recruits are required to demonstrate their knowledge and mastery of the subject.  These areas include: First Aid skills; Customs and Courtesies like saluting or boarding a ship, Marine Corps Uniform and rank identification, and weapons assembly and disassembly.

Final Written Academic Test – The final written academic test is second of two written tests recruits will take during their training.  Recruits must pass both the practical application test and the written test in order to progress in training and to be able to graduate.  Recruits are tested across the spectrum of what they have been taught in training.  Test material includes: Core values and ethics; the general military subjects of First Aid, History, Customs and Courtesies, Marine Corps Uniforms, Leadership, and policy and organization; BWT subjects like land navigation and hand and arm signals; and Marksmanship.

Monday – 2/23

The Final PFT – Every Marine must be physically fit, regardless of age, grade, or duty assignment.  Fitness is essential to the day-to-day effectiveness and combat readiness of the Marine Corps.  Furthermore, physical fitness is an indispensable aspect of leadership.  The habits of self-discipline required to gain and maintain a high level of physical fitness are inherent to the Marine Corps way of life and must be a part of the character of every Marine. Marines who are not physically fit can be a detriment to the readiness and combat efficiency of their unit.

The “PFT” is a physical test that every Marine takes twice each year and consists of pull-ups, crunches, and a 3.0 mile timed run. 
  
Requirements for female recruits to score the maximum of 300 points:

70 second Flexed-arm hang
100 Crunches
3.0 mile run in 21:00 min (Timed) 

Wed 2/25

 Final Drill Evaluation – The Final Drill Evaluation tests each platoon’s ability to listen to the orders of its Drill Instructor, and is a final demonstration of unit discipline and esprit de corps.  Drill was used as one of the first methods of transforming these recruits from civilians into Marines, and played a large part on their development of teamwork and unit cohesion.

The object of close order drill is to teach Marines by exercise to obey orders and to do so immediately in the correct way. Close order drill is one foundation of discipline and esprit de corps. Additionally, it is still one of the finest methods for developing confidence and troop leading abilities in our subordinate leaders.

Thu/Fri/Sat – 2-26/27/28

The Crucible is the defining moment of recruit training.  The Crucible is designed to evaluate a recruit’s mental, moral, and physical development in order to validate the transformation into a United States Marine.  For most, the Crucible will be the first time they reach the limits of their mental, physical, and emotional endurance. They will know that they are capable of much more than they previously believed.  They will know that they can exceed their own personal limitations through teamwork, perseverance, and courage.  The Crucible, once experienced, will be a personal touchstone and will demonstrate for each and every recruit the limitless nature of what they can achieve individually and, more importantly, what they can accomplish when they work as a team.

The Crucible consists of 54 hours of intense, physically demanding training, under conditions of sleep and food deprivation.  During this time, recruits will be forged in the furnace of shared hardship and tough training that is the time-tried and battle-proven trademark of Marine recruit training.  There will be night forced marches, a tough night infiltration movement, a combat resupply event, a casualty evacuation drill, and combat field firing. Any recruit who quits will not bear the title Marine.

Recruits will encounter unique obstacles, each bearing the name of a heroic Marine from our illustrious history, which can only be negotiated with teamwork.  Once each obstacle is overcome, the drill instructor mentors the recruits, critiques their efforts, and retells the story of the Marine for whom the obstacle was named, bringing to light how that individual exemplified our core values. . . . . . . Honor, Courage, Commitment.

The Crucible is the culminating event in recruit training, and in order to become a Marine, all recruits must complete and pass the entire evaluation.  Capping the already tough challenges of the previous two days is a 9 mile march with full packs and all of their personal equipment.  It is the final event designed to see who has what it takes, and all recruits must complete the march to pass, and those that do not pass are sent home.  At the end of the march the recruits participate in the Emblem Ceremony.  This is the moment when the legacy is handed down, they earn the title “Marine,” and the newest Marines are presented with the Corps’ emblem, the Eagle, Globe, and Anchor, by their drill instructors.