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Betty Flaherty’s Life

I got to tell you, the Betty sitting gig at Kelly’s is pretty pretty pretty good. I fly in, spend a day with Kelly, she leaves, then Betty and me hang out for 4 nights. Kelly gets back. We spend the next day together and I fly home early next morning.

That’s the general overview. Bottom line is I’m here to watch Betty. Keep her safe and sound, fed and walked until Kelly gets home.

Betty is very easy to take care of. She has a routine and likes to stick to it. Here is Betty’s prefect day. Which is most days.

Morning walk around 7am

Farmers dog breakfast

Lazy Morning

Mid day walk

Lazy afternoon

Farmers dogs dinner

Evening walk

Bed

This is Betty’s dream life and she has it down. The morning walk is a long walk around the neighborhood. Same way everyday. Stop at the median to pee, sniff all the good smells on Ocean Blvd. If she has to poop she’ll head back to another median to do her business. Then up the street to where there is a doggy snack jar that Betty loves to visit. Then back home.

Mid day walk is a shorty, quick one block up and one block over to ANOTHER dog snack jar. Pee along the way. If she’s good we go back the way we came. If she wants to poop or take the long way home we do. But mostly it’s an out and back, and all about the snack.

When Kelly walks Betty, the evening walk is a drive to the park then walk. Betty also has a “no-drive” evening walk in her playbook. That is, a quick walk down to Ocean, across to the median to pee, the cross the rest of the way over to the sidewalk at Granada beach. This is where soi dog Betty is in her element. There can be food scraps, street meat and the such that ends up in the landscaped area next to the sidewalk. Even if there is nothing she is smelling something. She’ll sniff and smell her way along until she’s had enough or until she poops. Then it’s home straight away.

The first time I came out to watch Betty, I was asking Kelly about walking Betty and she said “Betty will show you where she want to go.” That’s truth. Betty leads the way. I just make sure that she doesn’t dart into traffic (which she would do) or eat street meat (ditto). She pulled a bacon wrapped hot dog out from under a bush on my first walk with her and Kelly!

Around the house Betty likes to take it easy. She breaks things up by having 4 sleeping spots. Her dog bed in Kelly’s room, under Kelly’s bed, corner by the couch or next to Kelly’s WFH desk. She also has a nice little outside area on Kelly’s porch.

If Betty has a passion it’s logs. Kelly bought her one of these plush logs with holes for squirrels when she.first got her. She really took a liking to the log and pretty much nothing else. She would eventually chew the log to where it needed replacing and Kelly would replace it. One thing leads to another and now Betty has enough plush logs in her dog bed to build a plush log cabin !

Three walks, two square meals, filtered water, belly rubs, snacks, logs, and lots of rest.

That is Betty Flaherty’s life.

She’s come a long way from the motorcycle chasing street dog living days in Thailand.

love ya Betty!!

Gym Jim day 2

Day 2 of the Jim gym experience. The best thing about it is it’s walking distance from Kelly’s. This time I just brought a water bottle, key and phone.

Not many people there but I already noticed two “regulars” from last time. Mr ponytail on the treadmill and old guy reading the morning paper on a recumbent bike. I tried the other type of bike they had. Again a very nice bike but I think I like my echelon better.

Thanks to the Belmont Athletic Club for the guest passes and thanks Kelly for being a member.

FUN FACT – this was my first time ever working out in a gym.

EVER!

Scan-o-ramma

I’m May I did something that had been on my “when I have time I’m going to……” List.

Took all of our photo albums and boxes of loose photos out from the closet and began to scan. And scan. And scan.

Now when I say I had a lot of pictures to scan I’m not kidding. In the closet in “Kelly’s” room are 4 huge bins of nothing but photo albums. PLUS 2 more photo boxes with I don’t know how many in each. But they were .full. So the point here is that it’s a lot of fricken photos.

A good thing about doing this is that not every single photo in the photo albums needed be be scanned. Most all of the scenery shots were excluded. Duplicate pics like 4 of baby Kelly in an outfit. Only one of those makes the cut. Soccer pics where it’s just a bunch of kids. I’m looking for faceS and faces at places.

Another great thing about this whole process is to be able to digitally enhance some of the photos. I scanned a lot of older pics from both Smith and Flaherty families. Pictures that were faded and blurry really did well with an enhancement.

so I was looking for a good pic to put up here as just one example of all the hard work. So many good ones to choose from but I always came back to this.

Air Force Barbie. I scanned Barb’s Air Force photos and fell in love with this one. Just Airman Smith on her bunk. The look. The pose. She’s happy. Young Barb with her whole life ahead of her and the world is her oyster.

And she ended up with us! Love you bab

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Gym Jim

I’ve really got into a nice groove of riding the stationary bike. Nothing crazy. Just a self paced 30 minute ride of various degrees of resistance and cadence.  It’s always a good workout.  I’m sweating (thanks Florida!) and sucking wind at the end so it feels good. Getting some of those bike riding muscles back again.

So I’m here in Long Beach watching Betty for 5 days while Kelly travels (to Florida no less) for business. My first night here and before Kelly left, we walked down to 2nd street to get a gyro bowl. We walked by the Belmont athletic club with an exercise bike in the window. Told Kelly it would be nice to get a week long membership. She said that she was a member and to call them and see.

Unfortunately they only offer  month long guest memberships for $145.

BUT!

Since Kelly is a member they would put me on the guest list for 2 free uses!

I’ll take it!

So today I went to the gym.  After a short time trying to figure out the new bike I was on my way. Same type of ride so it felt good. Going back tomorrow to try the other kind of bike they have.

The pic is after the ride

Bird Nerd

Barb is the bird Nerd. I’m just the enabler. We have a video birdhouse and bird feeder. We just saw our first brood of 4 baby blue birds hatch and fly the coop.

We use the Merlin bird app to identify bird songs.

We’ve already adopted a small murder of crows.

So yes. Bird nerd all around.

Weekends at the beach

We love it when the Lee fam comes to town. They roll in on a Friday after work and stay until Sunday afternoon, and sometimes stay over and leave super early on Monday. Toby never disappoints

….and beach life

Really getting into and enjoying retirement mode. I like slowed down life. I like the low stress life. Good day for me is nothing on the calendar. Starts with morning coffee and wordle. Dog walk then some morning chores. Mow the lawn or water plants and kill ants.  It’s a good day when I can get in a 30 minute ride on the echelon stationary bike or a couple mile walk, which usually includes a stop at the beach. Shower and get ready for the day. Figure out what’s for dinner and head to the store. If it’s a simple grocery list I walk to Whole Foods. Come home and have a cup of tea.  Afternoons can be continued work on the honey do list. Always something to be done as a home owner. We’ve been trying to eat dinner a little later but at some point it’s prep, cook, eat, and clean. Since we got the new kitchen we like to keep it looking nice all the time. After that it’s chill til bedtime.

Retired life!

Lainey Wilson in Vegas

Another thing that happened in the year that jimsjoint was down was that we went to Las Vegas to see Lainey Wilson in concert the first week of December . It was a whirlwind weekend. Flew in on a Friday and back home on Monday.  We had a great suite at the Palazzo. We saw Lainey on Saturday night. What a great show that girl puts on. Barb was happy! We also had tickets to see the Wizard of Oz at The Sphere. That was an awesome experience! Sarah flew out with us and hung out with Melinda for the weekend. We all had lobster dinner together to honor Barbs mom, who loved lobster.  All in all a fun, action packed weekend.