Daily Archive: February 1, 2024

Wine Night

Wine night is usually a Friday night girls thing where Barb, Maria and Julia get together and have a glass of wine or three. But who cares? It’s Friday night right?! It’s not even every Friday or most Fridays. But every once in a while Friday night is wine night.  So it’s kind of cool that I got pulled into a wine night while Barb is road tripping it back home with her sister. I’m sitting at home and get a text from Maria; “Liz and Z’s for one. Z wants you to come.” 

I topped off my jack and diet and headed over for wine night! Liz and Z have the house I want. Cozy and warm and nice. Just a simple neighborly visit. Z made triple chocolate shakes for Finn and Ada and when the sugar high kicked in I called it a night. My kind of wine night!

Sweetheart

What can you say about Sweetheart?

SHE’S A SWEETHEART!

We’ve always had dogs. When we bought our house as newlyweds in Fremont, our realtor gave us a cocker spaniel puppy as a house warming gift.  Apollo was the first. Then we got a companion for Apollo. Kira was also a cocker. She was so sweet. A very good girl. As Kira was getting older we got her a German Shepard puppy named Niya to keep her young. And then as Niya was aging along came Mali and Bruno. The Pekinese mutt brother and sister pair. Mali and Bruno made the trip with us to Florida.  We lived in our trailer on Kate and Frank’s property with the dogs and Lulu.  It wasn’t too long after Mali passed away that Sweetheart came into our lives. Although at first she wasn’t even our dog. 

Frank’s papa Cannon found her alone and lost on a rural road near his house.  Jimmy Cannon took her in and she was his and Granny Donna’s dog for a couple of years.  Donna was the one that named her Sweetheart!  She really knew something by giving her that name. Even though Sweetheart totally lives up the her name as one the the sweetest dogs I’ve ever known, it was the little heart shaped markings on her head that gave granny Donna the idea to name her Sweetheart.  We really didn’t meet Sweetheart until Papa Cannon gave Sweetheart to Parker. 

So Sweetheart came the Kate and Frank’s in early 2018. They already had Rusty and Scout and we had Bruno. Sweetheart fit right in. even though she was a small dog, she either didn’t know it or didn’t care. She would play and mix it up with the other dogs. She was such a small little thing but when the big dogs started running around and playing hard she was all in with them. Her signature move was to always try to go for the back leg. When Rusty and Scout got playing they would run REAL fast and if you got in the way, watch out!  That didn’t bother Sweetheart. She’d at least try to get in the mix and go for that back leg whenever she had a chance. Rusty must have outweighed her by 50 pounds. Scout was still a pup by most counts but still had Sweetheart by 20 pounds. Even though Sweetheart was new to the family, outnumbered and outweighed, she stole everyone’s heart. Rusty and Scout were gentle with her. They loved her too. When Kate got a Boston Terrier pup named Opal, Sweetheart put up with all her shenanigans too.  In my eyes he became the momma dog of the pack.

I swear that Sweetheart can tell who in the room needs her most then she will gravitate towards that person (or dog).  She will ask for attention then snuggle up or sit. Just being there. Its by no means one sided. She doesn’t mind a little attention either. When we first met her she would immediately roll over for tummy rubs.  She loves those tummy rubs.

It was one big happy dog family at the Lee family ranch, except for Bruno. Bru was always an odd duck. Even back in California. He was a grump. He had anxiety. He was a pain the ass at times. Mali was the good one who evened out Bruno. When Mali passed there was no Ying to Bruno’s Yang. That was about to change. Barb started to have Sweetheart spend more and more time at our trailer. At first it was just to hang out after dinner, then Kate would call Sweetheart home and she would run from our trailer to there house. But over time Sweetheart started to spend more time with us. I think it did help Bruno. Even though Bruno did maintain his overall grumpiness, having Sweetheart there did seem to help.  I can tell you that whenever Bruno was showing signs of anxiety Sweetheart would pick up on it and give Bruno attention. Now all the while that we are living in the trailer, we also had our cat Lulu with us. She transitioned from and indoor/outdoor cat in Fremont to a full time trailer cat. She adapted well to indoor life. When Sweetheart started coming over Lulu stayed hidden. But Sweetheart had the good vibes and eventually even hard as nails Lulu, if not accepted Sweetheart, at least put up with her and recognized her. What a Sweetheart!

When we bought the Jacksonville Beach house we were still living at the ranch and coming to the beach on weekends. We started to bring Sweetheart with us as Bruno’s therapy dog lol. If we wanted to go out Bruno and Sweetheart would have each others company.  Sweetheart was there for Bruno big time when there were thunder storms or fireworks going off. Bruno would freak out to the point where we sometimes had to medicate him.  But Sweetheart came to be the calming force during those trying times for Bru Bru. She would lick his face and let him know that everything would be alright. She was just THERE for him. Over time I have realized that she is there for whoever needs her.

At some point Kate just let us have Sweetheart since she was with us all the time anyway. So Sweetheart became our dog. She adapted to full time life at the beach very well. Her and Bruno got along even if Bruno was trying to be a jerk old man to her. Lulu came on board and it wasn’t long before all three were sleeping on the bed with us at night. One big happy family.  All pets get old and die and eventually it was just Sweetheart who is home with us now. As good as she is with other animals Sweetheart really liked being the only show in town. Of course Barb had always spoiled our animals and Sweetheart was ne exception. Sweetheart is living the good life. A beach life. 

When we made friends with the McCormick family next door, Sweetheart was part of the package.  Time as passed, McCormick had a baby girl who is now three years old and Sweetheart’s best friend. Ada walks (with adult supervision) Sweetheart around the block. Sweetheart keeps just the right pace with Ada, never pulling, just walking.  Sweetheart also made friends with the McCormick dog Shay so we can all go over and visit no problem. We have also watched Shay for a few days while they went to Michigan. Again Sweetheart was cool with it.

Kelly got Betty. Betty is a rescue from Thailand. A good dog but not a dog’s dog.  Betty is in the perfect situation with Kelly. Single life, no other pets, no drama. Betty pretty much wants to eat sleep and get belly rubs from Kelly. Otherwise leave her alone.  Kelly still wanted to visit her Florida family but was having trepidation over introducing Betty to Sweetheart. Knowing Sweetheart we figured it would be fine, but Kelly was not so sure with Betty. But as always it was Sweetheart who made it happen. She gave Betty her space. Didn’t push and eventually became friends. Old lady  and was ready to cut her 8 week stay short if Betty wasn’t having it. We got some sort of DNA/age test done on both of them and turns out they are both around 9-10 years old. So what started out as trepidation for Kelly turned into a good thing. Old lady Betty, the street dog from Thailand had a friend in the little farm dog from Florida. They would go on walks together and mostly ignore each other, that until there was a good smell to smell. Then they would both get their noses in there together. The Smell Sisters! There have been a few time when we took them to the beach that they would get the zoomies! So great to see these two old ladies having some fun on the beach. 

Sweetheart made the recent cross country drive with Barb and I to visit Kelly in Long Beach. She sat right in between us on her little dog bed the whole way there and back. Road dog!!

Kelly gave Sweetheart the gift of a DNA test that included an age estimate.  DNA revealed she is mostly Chihuahua and Boston terrier with a little jack Russell terrier mixed in. That proves to be true. She has the Boston markings all the way.  Her age was estimated to be 10 years old! So she must’ve been around 2 years old when Papa Cannon rescued her way back when. She’s an old lady now!

Now a days its just the normal routine. Up early, feed Sweetheart, outside for a poop or pee or both. Morning walk. Morning nap. Afternoon nap. Dinner, evening walk, bed.  We have Opal come over and stay once in a while, and although Opal can be a pain, she does seem to calm down after a while. I think Sweetheart has a lot to do with that.

Sarah and Mom Smith just arrived with two cats Harry and Hazel are two mellow house cats. Sweetheart met them in our cross country trip so everyone either gets along or totally ignores each other.

So there you have it. The bestest dog. Our Sweetheart.

Normal Times

Barb left to start her drive back Kelly back in mid-November. Back then until yesterday was 93 days. The last time Barb and I were alone and together at the house. Just the two of us. Normal times. Then three months of:

Barb goes to get Kelly and brings her back for her normal stay. Then drives back with her in mid-January. Then she heads to Yuma to pack up her sis and mom for a trip back to Florida. Beginning of February Barb is home with sis and mom who stay for two weeks for there new rental. The day they leaves Kate and Frank and family come for the weekend. We didn’t realize it until was all said and done that it so long. It wasn’t a bad thing just different. I am glad that we are back to normal times. At least for now!

Meet the Neighbors!

Your neighbors are just like the box of chocolates in Forrest Gump. You never know what you’re  going to get!  We got lucky!!  When we moved here to the beach, for the first few months we were only coming on weekends and then spent the week at Kate and Frank’s. We hadn’t met any of our neighbors yet since we weren’t there that often. We first met Richard of Julia and Richard (they live next door to the left).   We had a ring doorbell installed when we moved in and one day we were back at the ranch in Live Oak when the ring alarm went off. We pulled up the camera and see some guy doing something in the front of our house. We weren’t sure who he was or what he was doing so I turned on the speaker part of the ring and ask “hello, can we help you?” He didn’t know where the voice was coming from so we asked again. I think only then did he realized the voice was coming from the doorbell. “just picking up leaves from our tree”. And that was the first encounter with Richard next door. Next time we were at the beach and saw him outside we went out to introduce ourselves and apologize in person for our spying on him.  Richard and Julia have been living at the beach for a while. Both PHDs who worked at Mayo clinic. They have two sons, Noah and Liam.  Since then we have got to know them a lot better. Richard is a great guy. He mows our lawn for us when he is mowing his lawn! He even put up our back fence for us because ours was falling down and he had extra fence panels. Julia comes over for the occasional wine night.  Great neighbors!!

We met Maria and Cory when we were getting the HUGE Live Oak tree trimmed in our back yard. This tree is one of the reasons I loved this house so much. The branches cover most of our house and back yard and provide ever needed shade during summer months. It also hangs over into Maria and Cory’s yard to the right providing them with much needed shade also. But I knew nothing about these trees so we had an arborist come and check it out and give it a trim. The tree got a clean bill of health and they did trim some of the branches. When they were done they knocked on the door to let us know that when they were up in the tree trimming that they noticed a couple of holes on our neighbors roof and that they placed a note at there door to let them know.  Either that day or the next we met Maria. She came over to get some more information on what the tree trimmers said.  Long story short (and contrary to what Cory might say) there were holes in their roof that were caused by tree branches from the tree in our backyard. Like a branch had grown over and eventually just rested on their roof. I guess over time it caused a hole. As much as Cory would like it if it was our tree at the time Google earth clearly shows the holes before either of us moved in. Fortunately for Maria and Cory the hole was over the overhang part so any rain did not get in the house. Side Note:  They paid for home inspection before they bought and the “inspector” missed it. Jerk.  We officially met Cory a day or two later in our driveway.  Maria the ICU nurse and Cory the Nurse Practitioner. Boy did Barb luck out there!  

So there they are. Maybe the two best next door neighbors we could EVER expect to have.  Just google  “neighbors from hell” and you’ll see what I mean.  We’ve been here five years now and the bond has grown stronger.  Not only neighbors but dear dear friends. Its made life at the beach and life in general just that much better. We are the old couple of the bunch. Everyone’s kids range from sweet Ada (who steals our heart) who’s around 3 to Noah on the other side of us who is off to Florida State. So the 30-40s on the right and the 40-50s on the left, and us old folks in the middle, and kids all around. Right where we want to be!

jimsjoint turns 20!!

20 years! 

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Happy Anniversary

        jimsjoint!

And how about a shout out to the Original Jim’s Joint!?  Grandpa James Cornelius Hurley along with my uncle Jim Hurley behind the counter at Jim’s Joint in San Francisco circa 1924.  Just a small general store.  You can see the Butter Fingers and Baby Ruth behind the glass at the counter. Family lore tells us that there were illegal card games and booze (prohibition) in the back room when the store closed for the night.

This picture is around 100 years old. Based on my mom’s birthday and how much older uncle Jim was than her.

It was used on the first jimsjoint post 20 years ago.

So Happy Anniversary all around

Crow Chronicles

This just happened. I had two peanuts on the end of the rail. I was porch sitting with sweetheart and Willow. When Barb brought Opal out. That causes Willow to skedaddle. Almost right after, Buddy the crow swoops down, sees two dogs on the porch and pulls up and lands on the roof. I held the dogs and sure enough Buddy comes down to the rail and takes a peanut and the other one fell on the porch. Right when this was happening Richard and Liam come home next door and are getting out of there car. Just then Willow takes off across the street at the same time Buddy is taking his peanut back to the creek. Willow is almost across the street and buddy swoops down to mess with Willow causing her her scoot under the trailer at Barry’s house. Richard saw it and said woah! I couldn’t believe it!  I mistakenly called Willow back and as she was crossing the street Buddy and his buddy both ganged up and went after Willow, chasing back across the street this way! It’s crazy!